Water under the bridge

I guess you can call this a post dedicated to one of my friend who's currently undergoing, in my opinion, a repetitive chain of events. Just for the record, I'm not trying to be the gossiping-know-it-all-love-guru or what, I'm just putting this down while waiting for my hazeline to dry before I can go to bed.

To unnamed friend:

You've said it yourself, you've undergone the same thing so many times now that you're already numb to it. I say, why bother putting yourself through the whole situation all over again? If it'd occured so many times and you still haven't learn anything from it, you really are not very smart are you. You said you won't take him back this time round and I hope you mean it.

I'll be brutally honest, he's not good-looking, he's not rich, he's not smart and it seems that he doesn't really love you alot. You 2 have been together for so long and yet he keeps coming up with all these pattern, you not sian I also sian for you. Please, wise up. I seriously think you deserve much better, I'm sure all your friends think so too. Even Pearly agrees also. Stop wasting your time and youth on someone like this. Although I haven't met him before, I'm pretty sure I'm right about this.

People always say love can't be measured by the length of the relationship, nor does it abide to any rules of right or wrong. But none of us are perfect lovers, there's a always a pragmatic side of us waiting to break out and make love seem like just a 4 letter word. In this case, this pragmatism isn't such a bad thing afterall. It's time for a little more common sense and a little less lovey-dovey ideals. I say, get out more, find yourself a better guy (I'm pretty sure it's not a difficutlt thing cause a random guy on the street would be much better than him anyway) and don't look back.

As Jack from Lost would say, water under the bridge.